Aries Midheaven: Your Success and Fulfillment
With a Midheaven in Aries, you need excitement, challenge, and action in your career.
Creating Success
An individual with their Midheaven in Aries produces positive results when they are able to express their personal point of view. By revealing their preference on how they would like things to go, they create clarity for people by allowing them to respond to their own reality.
They don't need to think about how they are able to "be themselves" while keeping the other team member. When the person is supportive of their mission, an Aries Midheaven has gained a partner in their work.
If it's not the case, then the Aries Midheaven person hasn't wasted their time trying to get the support of someone else who naturally has a different value.
It's not easy at first because the Aries Midheaven is so attuned to others, but being the one to take charge in following their own individual instincts allows them to open up to self-discovery in the process of achieving their goals.
The outcome of the Aries Midheaven individual's courage is the peace and happiness of being completely in charge of their lives. In relationships communicating their needs and feeling frees them from co-dependencies that may weaken their ability to take action.
Happiness permeates every aspect of the life of the Aries Midheaven when they are able to clearly communicate their motives, instead of manipulating situations to get acceptance. The Aries Midheaven can achieve success when they responsibly communicate with others about the direction they wish to go in. When they openly share their dreams in with others they put themselves in control of their own destiny.
Their Achilles Heel
Aries Midheaven people are prone to fear losing their status of being a "nice person" which means they will never have the pleasure of being a person in their own right. The desire of the Aries Midheaven to appear friendly, courteous and cooperative might prevent them from declaring their individuality. This is a survival tool they learned in childhood but is no longer serving them as an adult.
If the pattern continues throughout the adult life of Aries Midheaven, fearing the loss of the cooperation of others could cause them to continuously be accommodating to family members, friends, and colleagues. However, this can lead to discontent and results in feeling unappreciated.
The practice Aries Midheaven have of manipulating other people to keep a certain persona and create a harmonious seeming emotional state leaves little space in a relationship to express their true feelings.
The identity the Aries Midheaven individual creates is often an extension of others, the "harmony" contrived. They may compromise themselves out of having personal feelings of their own.
Unhappiness comes to the Aries Midheaven individual through this loss of their identity, and through restricting themselves from relating deeply and authentically to another person, since that would involve abandoning the security of their social manipulations. Others may sense the "wishy-washiness" of their interactions and feel reluctant to build an intimate relationship with them.
Fulfillment
Happiness is allowed to enter every area of their life when the Aries Midheaven individual approaches from the standpoint of revealing their independent self.
When the Aries Midheaven individual stops people pleasing, they are free to assert their true identity. Pioneering ideas from their independent spirit begin to emerge, leading them to experience themselves as a person in their own right.
As a byproduct of expressing themselves spontaneously and positively, the Aries Midheaven individual creates a space into which others can enter. They are happy when they concentrate on being their own leader and simultaneously attract people into the Aries Midheaven's life who don't need to be manipulated to be in a state of harmony with them.
The Aries Midheaven models the integrity of expressing their own feelings when they let others see them as a unique individual. They then open themselves to attracting the relationships and intimacy they have always wanted.
Their 'Home Base'
The childhood and early environmental conditioning for the Aries Midheaven were in many ways very beautiful and peaceful. Personal compromise and harmony for the sake of getting along were emphasized.
For an individual with an Aries Midheaven, childhood survival tools included diplomacy, having an elegant presence, and an affinity for beauty and harmony. Early on, Aries Midheaven individuals learned that "keeping the peace" was their key to having personal safety. However, as an adult, this can create an over-dependence on partnership and the accord of others that keeps them from finding or following their own path.
The Aries Midheaven individual has been the partner or support person for someone else in situations where the strength of the relationship ensured their own survival. A fear of disrupting the safety of their current space may tempt them to suppress their instinctive responses to people and situations. In this life, it is their instincts that best guide the Aries Midheaven's way.
Good Career Choices
With their Midheaven in Aries, individuals are happiest in professions where they can 'do their own thing', and have plenty of room to initiate action. A career that gives them the flexibility to independently follow their own impulses in reaching their goals is preferred.
The biggest talent the Aries Midheaven has lies in being a warrior whose courage and energy lead to new beginnings that steer them in the right direction. Any field where being a self-starter is required. Their strong suit is in initiating projects and taking charge, inspiring others to support them.
Self-contentment for the Aries Midheaven is assured by allowing the world to see them as a person of integrity. When they are honest and direct in communicating what they think, the Aries Midheaven individual will be perceived as independent, ambitious, and ready to lead the way, unswayed when their instincts are at odds with social structures.
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