For the Mars in Gemini, fidelity does not come easily to you, and your mercurial mind and quicksilver sexuality are hard to pin down. You thrive on change and versatility, and like to make?love with a wide variety of people and in a variety of places and positions.

With Mars in Gemini, you have an active imagination and are never boring in bed, but you can be?inconsistent: involved and in-tune one day, detached and distracted the next. One?way of expressing your Geminian duality is by alternating from deep relationships to superficial ones. More than any other Mars placement, you are capable of having sex with no emotional involvement at all, and are the master/mistress of the?quickie and anonymous one-night stand. That?s not to say you can?t sustain a long-term relationship and be faithful. You find monogamy difficult (especially when?you are young), but not impossible. For a sexual relationship to survive past the?honeymoon phase, with Mars in Gemini, you need a partner who sates your mental as well as physical?appetites. Your mind is your most vital erogenous zone, and you are turned on by?mental rapport?? a sharp intellect, a lively mind, a sense of humor and witty repartee.

What you initially want is a sexual playmate, but if they can stimulate and satisfy?you mentally as well, then there is a strong chance your playmate will eventually become your soul mate.

Self-assertion for a Mars in Gemini

As an individual with Mars in Gemini, you prefer not to assert yourself where emotions are concerned, because you feel?out of your depth in deeply emotional waters. So you keep your feelings to yourself,?which can lead to great inner tension and anxiety. You also have trouble asserting?your needs because they change so abruptly. With Mars in Gemini, what you want today doesn?t hit the?spot tomorrow, which can be frustrating for you?? and others. Unless your partner is a skilled mind-reader, you have to remember to keep them posted with regular? updates.

Additional Information on Women with Mars in Gemini

A Mars in Gemini woman is usually attracted to intelligent, cerebral men with one or more planets in Gemini (or Libra and Aquarius, which are the other air signs). For the Mars in Gemini woman, the boyish type appeals, someone with a playful nature and accompanying sense of humor, with? whom she can share many diverse forms of communication (talking, reading, writing, seeing films and plays together?).

Mars in Gemini Love Compatibility Guide

You and Mars in Aries

In the Mars in Gemini and Mars in Aries combination, the two of you have the quickie down to a fine art. Fast, furious and uncomplicated? is how you like it and you both become aroused very quickly. Spontaneous sexual?escapades excite, and you love the way they are game for anything. Where they lead?you willingly follow!

You and Mars in Taurus

A Mars in Gemini and Mars in Taurus relationship starts out well, but usually ends in dissatisfaction and recriminations because? your sexual needs are so different. They want slow, steady rhythm with lots of?cuddles, and you want a five-minute quickie with lots of talk. And, where they demand sexual loyalty and commitment, you want the space and freedom to play the? field.

You and Mars in Gemini

A double Mars in Gemini couple have a lot of fun together. You are very vocal during lovemaking (if?you?re staying with friends, buy them some earplugs!), and enjoy making love at?different times of the day and night?? in a variety of places and positions. You both?get off on mind sex as a prelude to physical sex?? from erotic literature and?raunchy repartee to hot phone sex.

You and Mars in Cancer

In the Mars in Gemini and Mars in Cancer combination, you are too restless and changeable for them, and they are too moody and emotional for you. They get quite exasperated with your bedroom techniques???you just get a great routine going and then you change it! (And you can?t cope?when they cry during lovemaking.)

You and Mars in Leo

Mars in Gemini and Mars in Leo enjoy a lively and playful sex life. You love entertaining each other in?the bedroom (from singing and storytelling, to dancing and striptease), and you?are both very creative when it comes to novel forms of lovemaking. You stop them?getting stuck in a rut, and they add some fire and passion to your mercurial?sexuality.

You and Mars in Virgo

The Mars in Gemini and Mars in Virgo combination often results in friction in bed because your approaches to sex?are so different. They are into thorough preparation, whereas you are slap-dash and?impulsive; they conscientiously work on perfecting their sexual routine, whereas?you are always changing yours. (And they are forever complaining that you don?t?take the relationship seriously.)

You and Mars in Libra

In the Mars in Gemini and Mars in Libra combination, you can be too spontaneous for them (they hate to make love if they?re unwashed, unperfumed and generally unprepared), but if you can tone down some of your?natural exuberance and impatience, this pairing is mutually beneficial. You don?t?reach a level of deep emotional exchange, but you do have a lot of fun.

You and Mars in Scorpio

In the Mars in Gemini and Mars in Scorpio combination, you find their intense, life-or-death approach to sex hard to deal with. ?Why don?t?they lighten up and chill out?? you think to yourself, ?After all, it?s only sex.? And?therein lies the difference. For you, sex is a fun diversion, whereas for them it is a?deadly serious business.

You and Mars in Sagittarius

In the Mars in Gemini and Mars in Sagittarius combination the ride is fast and bumpy. You revel?in their wild and free-spirited approach to sex, and they dig your ?I?m ready for anything? attitude. There is also an undeniable magnetic attraction between you but,?because of your restless natures, this partnership often doesn?t last.

You and Mars in Capricorn

With Mars in Gemini and Mars in Capricorn, your differing approaches to sex can be difficult to reconcile. You see them as old-fashioned and prudish, while they see you as irresponsible and frivolous. They find?your erratic approach to sex quite disturbing and, as the relationship develops, they?try to organize and discipline you in bed?? meanwhile you?re looking for the quickest escape route.

You and Mars in Aquarius

In the Mars in Gemini and Mars in Aquarius combination expect anything?? except fidelity! They regularly go out on a?sexual limb, and you eagerly follow. You love their unorthodox and unpredictable?approach to sex (they keep you guessing), and they are turned on by your willingness to experiment and try new things, positions; locations, gadgets, partners?

You and Mars in Pisces

With Mars in Gemini and Mars in Pisces, your mercurial sexuality is the antithesis of their dreamy approach. You want dirty?talk resulting in fast, exciting lovemaking, while they long for romantic vibrations?leading to simultaneous transcendental orgasms. After lovemaking, you talk about?the latest book you?re reading, while they bask (alone) in the afterglow and fantasize about a lifetime of connubial bliss.

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