Chiron in Aquarius - A Core Wound in Connection and Community
Those of us with Chiron in Aquarius experience our core wounding in the area of our ability or inability to connect with others to create community.
Individuals with Chiron in Aquarius experience their deepest wound in the inability or ability to connect with others and build community.
If you have Chiron in Aquarius, even when you're part of a group, you may have a deep feeling of isolation and disconnection from the challenges you experience with belonging to and connecting with a community. You feel that you don't fit in. This can lead to a feeling of unbalance and disconnection within your relationships.
With Chiron in Aquarius, you do not feel that you are valued and loved.
This is a very difficult mindset to be in. You may feel like you’re a nomad in a foreign land, and have a nagging feeling that you've never found or lost your tribe. At the same time, you could be working in a job that requires you to form relationships with those you work with.
It's possible to relive the feelings of the core wounds that you experienced from Chiron in Aquarius when you move or relocate to a different city. You may feel alone, even if you're in the midst of millions of people living in a large city. You may wonder if you'll ever discover the place where you fit in. It could help when you feel lost or are feeling lonely to remember why you chose to move to this location in the first place. What specifically did you wish to create in this new setting as a part of your distinctive community? You'll know you're making progress in building a community for yourself by consistently investing in your new location. If you have Chiron in Aquarius, this will feel nurturing for you.
Having Chiron in Aquarius, if you have specific belief systems or maintain a spiritual practice, integrate them into the development of your own community.
Ask for signs to be given to you about how and with whom you can connect and resonate with. When feeling the wounds of isolation and disconnection Chiron in Aquarius brings, we may forget that we're actually powerful creators. Remind yourself that even if you can't see it, change is always occurring. You may not even realize the wheels that are in motion. If these words don't resonate with you, create a story that you trust and can hold onto for comfort and security. As a result, start to observe the changes that occur around you. Be present in the moment as you walk by people on the street and carry on your day-to-day routines.
With Chiron in Aquarius, being mindfully present will make your encounters with others more significant. Create connections with new people you meet, some will stick while others may not. Some personal interactions might involve engaging in a meaningful conversation with an individual you'd like to know better, or sharing a meal with someone, and then going separate ways.
For individuals with Chiron in Aquarius, cultivating awareness of the present moment will help you heal from feelings of disconnection.
What could you do to connect with other people? What can you do to bring more significance and meaning to your life?
Let yourself be open to identifying the people who have been placed in your path. You could even be the person they're looking for. However, the feeling of isolation and social anxiety you feel with Chiron in Aquarius can cause you to not reach out to other people to build the intimate relationships you truly desire.
Learn to understand that social anxiety and fear are keeping you isolated and hindering your ability to make meaningful relationships. Experience has told you it's safer that way. Learning to manage your social anxiety and connecting with others will give you the healing you need. Our fears are usually unfounded, particularly when it comes to ideas and beliefs that we may be struggling with when deciding whether or not to go to a social event.
If you have Chiron in Aquarius, do any of the following statements seem familiar… "Will anyone know me there?" "What if 'so and so' is not there?" "What if 'so and so' is there?" "I do not know what to talk about."… These are all self-sabotaging thoughts, disguised as reasons to keep us from connecting with others.
With Chiron in Aquarius, the next time you are invited to a social event, view it as a possibility to create connections and build a community.
You might like the idea of saying hello to everyone and asking how they're doing, listen to others with openness and compassion. You may talk to a few individuals and find you really resonate with them and discover in detail how their lives are going. You'll then be able to share how things are going for you. You can decide to attend the event for a certain period of time that you feel comfortable with, and then leave the event before you feel exhausted or overwhelmed.
Healing with Chiron in Aquarius is found through meaningful connections with others and being part of a cause that is larger than yourself.
Be creative in this process and have fun doing it! Making healthy connections with other people could be more enjoyable when supporting a cause that you feel passionate about. The combination of a cause that is meaningful with personal connections can bring you joy and a sense of fulfillment. Forming relationships that bring joy and meaning to your life is a way toward healing the previous feelings of isolation you experienced. By doing this, your heart and mind begin to integrate as one.
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