Your Pluto in Your Partner's Houses

Where is Your Pluto in Your Partner’s Houses?

Discover how your Pluto location in your partner’s house affects your relationship below:

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 1st House:

A very strong attraction, tension, and sometimes fear (coming from your partner) when the two of you are around each other. You may try to control your partner’s behavior, style, and how they present themselves, there can be a constant fight for power or control. With Pluto in your partner’s 1st House, you can also help your partner with their confidence, and empower them.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 2nd House:

With Pluto in your partner’s 2nd House, you might become obsessive or controlling over your partner’s finances, material possessions, or be very possessive of them as an individual. In a positive light, you can help your partner grow their finances, help them find their own worth as a person, and have a good effect on their confidence.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 3rd House:

No small talks here. With Pluto in your partner’s 3rd House, you can, consciously or not, try to change your partner’s mind, opinions, thoughts, and ideas. You will be the one to talk more in the relationship and manipulate your partner into thinking a certain way. On the good side, you can help your partner grow their mind in new directions.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 4th House:

As an individual with your Pluto in your partner’s 4th House, you might be invested in your partner’s family, history, and home atmosphere. If you are a couple, you might be the one to have control over the home. The good side is that your partner can help you, giving you comfort, and safety. Having this placement can form a strong family bond between two people.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 5th House:

Having your Pluto in your partner’s 5th House can create an affair or relationship full of passion, sexual attraction, and intensity. You can help your partners discover more of their talents, and help them develop their creativity in a greater way. On the bad side, you can have a negative influence on your partner’s hobbies, introducing them to dangerous stuff, and using them to satisfy your own need for intensity or curiosity.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 6th House:

With your Pluto in your partner’s 6th House, you might be very invasive, always wanting to know what your partner is doing, and being obsessed with their life. This puts you in the stalker position. You can become controlling or too interested in your partner’s diet, health, also about their schedule or work.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 7th House:

Having your Pluto in your partner’s 7th House can create an intensity in your relationship unlike any other house position, it’s strongly felt by both sides. There can be a tendency to try to overpower or control your partner. On a good note, it can create a very powerful team when there isn’t confrontation and clashes.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 8th House:

With your Pluto in your partner’s 8th House, sex is explored on another level. You want your partner to reveal everything to you - secrets, themselves, everything other people can’t see. You need to feel close to your partner. Your partner might feel naked in front of you, your control is strongly felt in this relationship.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 9th House:

With your Pluto in your partner’s 9th House, you will want to influence your partner’s religious views, spirituality, and growth. You will want to be your partner’s mentor, and control their idea of life. Your partner will see you as their own cult leader, and idealize you. If you have good intentions, you can help with your partner’s growth.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 10th House:

In this relationship, having your Pluto in your partner’s 10th House, you will have the ‘make-it-or-break-it’ effect on your partner’s career. You can be their greatest source of support, and energy, an advisor, or you can try to reflect your own dreams/goals on your partner and try to pull the strings, controlling your partner’s image and reputation.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 11th House:

Having your Pluto in your partner’s 11th House, you can introduce your partner to some powerful people, people that may help them, and transform them. You can be controlling over your partner’s social circle and friends. In a relationship like this, it can be common for you to restrict your partner from hanging out with someone.

Your Pluto in Your Partner’s 12th House:

As an individual with your Pluto in your partner’s 12th House, you might be very invasive, and want to know who your partner really is, what are their deepest thoughts, and what their dreams are, and you will do anything to find it out. Mind games, being pushy, the curiosity can be neverending. The good side - you can understand your partners on a very deep level, and help them learn more about themselves.


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